I think you handle conflict differently depending on the situation and person.
I like to avoid conflict to begin with, i don’t like arguing or fighting with anyone but if i do then it depends how i feel at the time.
There’s times where i have felt i’ve had to be bold and direct and times when i’ve kept quiet.
When it’s family or close friends i think your more bold and direct as your comfortable enough to express how you feel with them more, whereas a work collegue, neighbour, friend or stranger you may not be so bold.
Zero to hero – Day One
Who am i?
I’m Vanessa, i’m in my mid twenties, i have recently brought my own place with my Fiance Nathan.
I have a full time job, a cat called Lucky and a cat called Tibby who lives with my mum.I’m a positive kind of person, always smiling and making jokes, i don’t take myself or life too seriously, there’s not enough time to stay mad so i get over things and forgive quite easily.
I’m a simple kind of girl, easy going and polite, i don’t like arguing however i am not a pushover either, so watch out ;).
Sensitive, kind and fun.
Why i’m here?
I started blogging as a way to share ideas with others, i made it public so i could get to know other bloggers and make new friends.
I’d love to be able to spend more time blogging but life can be quite hectic and sometimes i don’t have anything to write.
I’d like to say i have the perfect outfit but i don’t, i’m not a very confident person most of the time so it’s hard to choose an outfit to tell you about.
However i would like to say that i hope my Wedding dress will be my best confidence outfit, i’m hoping i feel my best in it and along with (hopefully) Jimmy choo shoes and sparkly accessories i’m sure i will feel the most confident i have ever felt.
Not only will i have the perfect confident boosting dress i shall also have the hair and make up to match, with my beautiful friends and family surrounding me i can’t wait!
Well there are so many wonderful bits i could choose and plenty of things i regret however i think if i could return to one part of my life it would be my childhood 9 and under, these were my carefree days, before my parents got divorced and we all lived together in my childhood home and life just seemed so much fun! Don’t get me wrong my parents divorce didn’t end my childhood lol, i completely understand why they divorced and love my extended family that i have from their divorce . It was just a big change, we moved to a whole new area, new school, new friends and it was all so different and not the most pleasant experience. It was also a time in my life when all my family members i have now lost were with us, i miss them so much it would be amazing to be able to spend those days with them again.
Here’s a few pictures to share with you… My brothers and me, me on the beach and me in my back garden enjoy 🙂